Bye bye diaper

Chloe was officially declared a very good bye to her diapers..the process goes as simple as the story below..


After my confinement ( given birth to her little brother), we are back to normal.. she goes back to school again after 1 month lap.  But, the forgetful aka sleep deprives mum forgot to bring diapers to school. (she went for full day schooling).

When she returned from school, these are our conversation..
Chloe: Mum, why you didn't bring diaper today?
Mum: Oh .. I forgot. Did you pee on your pant while nap?
Chloe: No.
Mum: (check for any wet pant inside the bag, found none, and a bit relief)
Mum: No need to wear diaper la, you are so big already..

However, I did forget to bring the diaper for her for a few days row.. and our daughter-mum conversation almost like above everyday.. then ONE NIGHT..

Chloe: I don't want to wear diaper, I am so big already..

And... that mark the night when I am so worry that she might wet the bed. I am so alert ..I even try to put on the diaper when she asleep but she declined..ya, declined in her sleep.

However, she still need to wake up to pee at about midnight.. I am ok with that since I am breast feeding the little one..

OK, 3y 8 mth.. say bye bye to the diapers.. you are free!

Her meltdown

She has been very hard to 'settle' lately. Daddy has losing his cool few time and spanked her butt on few occasion.

        Last Saturday is another meltdown drama. We are back from nanny house and it her nap time. I am also look forward to lay flat. She was so engaged to her cartoon at Ipad and do not want to sleep.

I keep the Ipad high.

She cried.. hardly.

I try to reason.. she hits me.

Shouting and crying like tornado just-visit.

I lost myself. I lift up my hand ( the same hand that i use to caress her, hug her, make her food, etc) and spank her hard on her butt near the thigh. I could feel my hand swelling hot.

She do no give up.. still insisting the ipad!

I get mad uncontrolled.

I spank again.  My hand is hot and swell.. but my heart is even pain.

Now, she settled.

I shouted at her " Take you bottle and lay down" she obeyed.  I relief...in a few second she fall asleep.


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Last night, she almost get the same treat again..

But, me been wiser by time..divided her attention and managed to settle her peacefully.

If you ask me, which path i will choose, i will say the second.  Is better divide her attention , that give her a spank-STOP order.

Chloe 1st drawing

Mummy proud of your drawing! By the way, it is face.
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