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Friday 14 December 2012

Stamping & Sticking

2y5m
Here we are , the starting of her artwork
Material: unused cardboard (this is cake-box), food-colour, sponge, some corn flour


Ta dah... masterpiece

She didn't  spare the floor 


Mummy give her a wall sticker, that suppose for decoration but sadly only last for 5 minutes on wall
I better stick on my face

So, that i can bring it everywhere!


Sunday 9 December 2012

Happy Birthday 30th

Years come and go.... too fast, too furious..

Without realising further, I am 3... okay, I am 30 this year and therefore mark the starting of new era of my personal emotional, well-being and financial development.

At this age, I have loving pair of parent, supportive sibling, lovely husband, chubby little gal of 2.4 year-old, my mother in law, his siblings, financial stability at the moments, confident, a lot of planning at head, and  the rest is a story.

Today is my birthday..

When I was a school-goer, it wasn't worth it, due to long term year end break at December. It means.. sadly.. Nobody ( category : Friends) to celebrate my birthday. When your birthday is on school days and week days.. friends will remember and celebrate it..

This year is so special.. I am Three.. THIRTY!

Here is my birthday wishes @thankful note @New year Resolution :)

MY family and Friends

They are my motivator and keep me going..

My respectful parent, as i owe them a lot. Wish them healthy and happy forever. I want to maintain good and clinging relation with them, cherish them, love them. Thank you for their unconditional love.
My lovely hubby, as he is the guy i love the most. Though sometime we do fight and on different opinion, but it doesn't matter as love covers all this.I want to take care his stomach, and make sure he gain his 5 kg in the year to come. Thank you for loving me, for who i am.
My little chubby, as i never know what is the mothers' job description is all about without her.This little gay of 2.4 year old have the power that overturn my life, rearrange my life. Thanks for bring in joy and happiness and many sleepless night too.

MY dream to be WAHM

I am going to take step by step to realising this.. which mean.. starting my long time abandon online business.

Yeah, i am going to be diligent to improve my writing skills through my blog.

MY God

A lot of things has frustrated my intimate relationship with the lord. This year i want to start read bible every day, set it at 6.00 am.  Don't forget also, my persevere prayer for the salvation of family.

Bake cake and read books

I am not a cake person, but i want to bake healthier biscuit and cake for my family..

Yes, actually i like reading and find no time to do so.. I am going to resume it this year..


Last but not least

Wish all my wishes come true and live my dream!!

Thursday 22 November 2012

Criteria for Positive Discipline


Five Criteria For Positive Discipline 

1. Helps children feel a sense of connection 
(Belonging and significance) 

2. Is mutually respectful and encouraging 
(Kind and firm at the same time) 

3. Is effective long-term 
(Considers what the child is thinking, feeling, learning, 
and deciding about himself and his world, and what to do 
in the future to survive or to thrive) 

4. Teaches important social and life skills 
(Respect, concern for others, problem solving, and cooperation 
as well as the skills to contribute to the home, school 
or larger community) 

5. Invites children to discover how capable they are 
(Encourages the constructive use of personal power and autonomy) 

-- Dr. Jane Nelsen

Monday 19 November 2012

Sensory kick!


At 2Y2mth 'young".
Sorting the beans. Can easily sort out after some demostration by mumi, but then get bored when 2nd trying.

Sorting out bean, after some demostration by mumi. Can sort out the beans but easily get boring after 2nd trying




At 2y3mth "young"
One of her favourite activities, has tried for many time and never get tired with this. Only this time , mumi photograph it.






At 2y3mth 'young'
Trying to colour, but no so success yet.. keep trying baby






Wednesday 7 November 2012

Mama papa talk: New baby

(Thinking .. how to start the conversation..)
Slight pause

Mama: Is time to get the new bb for next year.
Papa: Next year not good. Is year of Snake. We have tiger at home, tiger and snake fight.
Mama: But we are Christian, does that matter?
Papa: Matter.. we shall have one on horse year.
Mama: Then, will be huge gap.. ( age)
Papa:  Is ok, we get one early of year 2014..

Mama is thinking..what if unable to pregnant again, who take care of the newborn? am I destined to stay at home?

Papa.. continue with his work.. with blank mind!

Wednesday 17 October 2012

Working Richer, Not Harder


Working Richer, Not Harder

by T. Harv Eker. Posted on October 16, 2012, Tuesday
The idea of multiple streams of income sounds great, yes? If you lose one stream, you have others flowing in still. The problem is—especially with a lot of entrepreneurial-types—people don’t think about the kind of income they want to create, harveker reported.
You can have multiple sources of income and still play the role of worker-bee. Anybody who has had two or three jobs at a time knows that. Multiple incomes won’t mean much to your freedom if you still have to work like a dog for it. The difference is between linear and residual income.
Linear means you work once, you get paid once. That’s a job. Residual means you work once, and you get paid hundreds or thousands of times.
How do you know if you’re earning residual income? When you woke up this morning, were you richer than when you went to bed last night? If the money flows in while you sleep, this is a good thing. Duh! That’s always been the goal, yes?
It may sound like another one of those classic no-brainers, but frankly most people don’t get this concept. They end up working for years and years, trying to figure out how to make some money, but don’t ask the question, ‘Is it residual income?’ If it’s not residual income then don’t do it, because it takes you too slavery, not to freedom.
If you’re going to starve in order to do something—to create some kind freedom for yourself—then only do things that will take you to the kind of freedom you want. Most people end up starving doing linear income, so they have to keep going back to work. And every time they go back to work, they’ve got to get their daily fix of distraction after spending all their time making little money for themselves while the people who own the company they work for take the lion’s share. They don’t have any time left over when they get home to create any kind of streams of income that can last while they’re sleeping.
Here’s another problem people have—fear and uncertainty. You’re not going to know how to do what you want to do before you do it, and most people are waiting to know enough to be able to take action and go do it, which will never come.
You didn’t learn to drive a car by watching a video, did you? You got in the car, sputtered between the brake and the gas—driving your parent somewhere between frightened and resigned—but then you finally got pretty good at it. The things you want to do you have to do!
Everybody wants to be a millionaire, but only a few people will do whatever it takes.
Most people are stuck into these little straight-jackets about what’s right and what’s reasonable
A lot of people say, ‘Well, that idea I had to start a business was just a thought.’
Someone else once said, “No thought can reside in your brain rent free.” Every thought has a consequence. Some of those thoughts are very expensive!
And they cost our time, our enjoyment of life. A simple twist in how we look at the income game. How do you maximize your time and energy? How do you take what is already available to you right now to the next level?
Share your ideas or insights. We want to hear from you!
Source: harveker.com

FTWM

As a FTWM, it is deniable that the feeling of guilty always creep in .Why ?

Compare to father, mother is more likely to feel guilty?

It is heart-pain to reminiscence that my little girl is spending more time with nanny than me.

Whenever i have time with her at night, normally i will be too tired to read, craft or do any activities with her.. leave me feeling guilty again..WHY!!!???

I love my job currently, and also my girl and man.. how to divide myself.

Tuesday 11 September 2012

You are two!

This little note of my terrible amazing two years old daughter (to be exact 2y1m)

My En En, 

1) You still bites.Whenever you try to get attention, demanding something or discontent. That is the way you protest, right?! Mumy has all the bites mark all over body. No thanks!

2) No no.. you dont want to sleep on 'sarung' anymore. You know the routines, drink milk before sleep. However, it may take 15min to 1hr for you to slumber. You also need mumy to accompany you to sleep.

3) Yes, you are Ipad-kid.Steve Job shall be amazed at how child-friendly his design is.  Sorry dear, cos sometime daddy/ mumy babysit you with the gadget. However, mumy don't want to deny how you have learnt a lot from the application.

4) Mumy loves when you call out.. mi..mi... di..di.. you have the sweetest sound mumy ever heard.

5) You dislike any 'patching' on you head. Is ok.. when you feel ready to dress like any girl,mumy will be glad to help.

6) You hold a ' I can do it myself' attitude.You wanted to feed yourself and board the car yourself. Unwelcome any help at the moment.

7) You choose your own favourite shirt.Your favourite cartoon character now is Mickey Mouse and before this is Angry bird.

8) You started to use milk bottle.. ya, read it correctly.. you use bottle at 2.

9) You like to climb over mumy. 

Mumy hopes that your toddlerhood can pass slowly...




Saturday 4 August 2012

I realised that...

If anyone would ask me , 'Huhmm what the difference of you before and after becoming a mother?'

After I become a mother,

I realised that, heart is the first organ formed.I remember my 1st visit to the gynea to confirm my pregnancy, the doctor show me the baby's heart.

I realised that, I can bear a baby inside me my 'stomach', i can feel her kicking and moving. Two years ago, i force A LIFE out of me.. and she is just so adorable.

I realised that, Mothers' love is really great.Your mother is simply loving you and the way they express it may be different individually.

I realised that, breastfeeding is a learned and required much persistent and sacrifices but it worth it.

I realised that, when i decided to wean her, it takes me 10months to success. pheww...

I realised that, many nights is a fierce battle between her cries and my effort to stay calm and rational.

I realised that, I LOVE MY baby so much...

I realised that, my OLD BABY has been neglected a lot, but he simply stay happy and content.

I realised that, so many successful blogger-mum that jot down their happening with their toddler which i really envy the content..

I realised that, after married, become mother, with stable income now..I am really contented and happy.
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Saturday 7 July 2012

Procrastination

Yes, you read the title correctly. P.R.O.C.R.A.S.T.I.N.A.T.I.O.N...
I have been procrastinated to update my blog for so long... no entry, unattended blog.

Think back, my blog has been surviving for a year plus. I started this blog when i was still at my parents house, when we are in the transaction period where my hub is transfering from KK to Bintulu. At that time, Chloe still at his 1st year.  I am SAHM them..

Things change when i started my full time work. No, i still enjoy reading others blog but i have no time to input mine.

So, what now? Repent..? Haaha..

Hear from me soon.

Wednesday 1 February 2012

Year 2012

    As we entering into the month of February, I caught myself constantly running after the time, choking breathlessly.  I haven't had the time to 'gone through' what I have done last year, things to cope up this year and even don't have the time for the New Year resolution yet. Perhaps, I should just forget about it!

My little Chloe (1YO6MO) really make up most of my after work's time now.  Every night, we co-sleep during our breastfeed-sleep section and I will fall asleep.

"I don't have time' is the sentence that I frequently use now. No time for facial, saloon and not so health freak like last time. 

My day started as early as 6.00am, I will straight to kitchen to prepare porridge for Chloe. I need to ready the porridge, preparing breakfast for hubby and me, filling our water bottle, if possible some cleaning, brooming or even mopping.  This morning, I am planning to do some ironing, but alas, Chloe wakes up at 6.30am today and surely I won't risk ironing with her by my side.

      Sometimes, I feel me and Hubby spent too less coupling time together.  I have been focusing on the little one and neglected the 'old' one.  Pressure at works, houseworks and parenting issue sometimes upset me and cause some arguement between us.  I miss the time when we cuddling as a lover, romancing and passionate for each other.  Yes, you read correctly, I am thirsty for affection.

Assure me! In more years to come, when kid grow up, we will have that ' special time' again. Mummy, be strong, raising a kid is worth all the sacrifice as the rewards is more that you can see now!!

Valentine is coming......I shouldn't passively wait, plan something.*grin*