Bye bye diaper

Chloe was officially declared a very good bye to her diapers..the process goes as simple as the story below..


After my confinement ( given birth to her little brother), we are back to normal.. she goes back to school again after 1 month lap.  But, the forgetful aka sleep deprives mum forgot to bring diapers to school. (she went for full day schooling).

When she returned from school, these are our conversation..
Chloe: Mum, why you didn't bring diaper today?
Mum: Oh .. I forgot. Did you pee on your pant while nap?
Chloe: No.
Mum: (check for any wet pant inside the bag, found none, and a bit relief)
Mum: No need to wear diaper la, you are so big already..

However, I did forget to bring the diaper for her for a few days row.. and our daughter-mum conversation almost like above everyday.. then ONE NIGHT..

Chloe: I don't want to wear diaper, I am so big already..

And... that mark the night when I am so worry that she might wet the bed. I am so alert ..I even try to put on the diaper when she asleep but she declined..ya, declined in her sleep.

However, she still need to wake up to pee at about midnight.. I am ok with that since I am breast feeding the little one..

OK, 3y 8 mth.. say bye bye to the diapers.. you are free!

Happiness is to embrace this moment

Recently come across a sharing from my facebook friend that really enlighten me. It is like a hard slap that make me awake..

The title is 22 habits of unhappy person..

Guess what.. I got most if not some of the habits..

One habits that very annoyed me is .. we always live in the present.. how to say? We always waiting for future and forget the embrace now. This MOMENT.. we always waiting for the day to come and never enjoy our current living. When we are in high school, we waiting for our university life, when we in university, we will be dreaming of working life, and when we working we will be thinking of family life.. the list go on and on and we never enjoy our current life..

After I read this..i start thinking.. this is indeed my situation.. never satisfied with current living.. sort of living in the future and forgot to enjoy the moment.

Don't get me wrong, it doesn't mean that we do not need to plan for future. We still plan for future, but while waiting the future to materialize, we enjoy this moment, the things, person around us.

I started be grateful for my current situation..environment..person.. I simply enjoy it.

Chloe 3Y 6M

Warning: Backdated post

Dearrie,

You are in your sweet 3 years old.. sometime when i look at you, i wonder how the time has flies so fast.  I felt wanted to stop the time, so that i can spend more time with you.. witnessing your growth.

1. You have your new haircut which i deal with the lice issue few months ago. Really boy cut as commented by others. But, considering that you have a light curly messy hair, this hair cut will settle the mess.
To my surprise, you called yourself ' gor gor' (big brother in chinese) instead of 'jie jie' (big sister in chinese). When i asked why? you said .." you see my haircut, i am gor gor".. well baby, that send huge grin on my lips. You are such a innocent babe..

2.  You talked a lot and your vocabulary increase drastically. You started to answer back like denying the things. You started to ask Questions..On the way to school , you will ask why there are so many cars and things like why the petrol station is not open yet. When on the way to town, you chatty self always fill the silence.

3. Occasionally, you ask for treats from grocery. I know what you will choose. those cost me something and yet nothing.  It was totally a waste of money but why i allowed? It must e your cute satisfying face that worth it.

4. You love writing and reading at the moments and i prayed that this will lasted for life time. You can recognise 80% of alphabets but still progressing in writing. You like art work, tracing and listening to story. you sang very well too.^^

In a few week time, you will have a little brother.. but i assure you, love will only increase and not divided.

love you forever,

Mummy, with 37 weeks bump.

Sleep on your stomach

I think he likey to sleep on stomach and can sleep soundly..and longer.

*8 weeks

For record sake, sister also sleep like that when she small.

 

Exactly.. I LOVE YOU!! 

1 month son

Dear son,

You are one month old today. Congratulations! . ( congrats the mummy too).

It seem that we have known for ages yet it is just 1 month.

Really?

Mummy start pondering with a little shaky, how on earth the life ahead..with you and jiejie to take care of , it did send me a chill..will I be as patient as I can be...