Know how to behave?

Last night , i was not well- having a flu.

So, Chloe and her daddy going to the group meeting themselves.  This is the 1st time i ever let the daddy and her daughter to go out themselves.

Before they leave:

Mummy: You can take care her or not?

 (worried,as you know, daddy was never as caring and as attentive as mummy)

Daddy: No problem. Chloe, go and change your clothes.

Then, i have my good rest from 8.00 pm until i heard sounds again.. yes they are back.

Daddy: Chloe is so guai (good).  Sit still and behaving nicely. So easy to take care.

> < !!! Seem that, i am the one being bullied by her, as when i am the one who take care her, i need to attend to her unreasonable, insisting demands.

Should sharp up my parenting skills....sob sob..

Stop the night cry ..

If you can meet my husband this morning, he will tell you how tense our morning today.
I am angry, translated not satisfy, filled with anger, feeling under appreciated, feeling under valued and back slide.  I don't speak a word today.

To bring in the story..

It happens that Chloe of 2y9 m is sick. It means no peaceful minutes in the house.
My patients really sum up.. with her unreasonable cry and demand.

Asking cold yogurt drink at 3.00 am in the morning! ( which i gave in after half and hour)
Asking me to refill her drink bottle 3-4 times a night ( is midnight) just for the sake of filling it.
Instructing my sleeping position and get frustrated if i disobey.
Insisting to watch cartoon at wee hours
Crying with unknown reason.

Heck! Is midnight everyone!

I am having a frac-tu-red - not quality sleep for nights.

So tense. > <

During these days, a lot of negative thought may creep in which injecting danger to the relationship.

Relationship needs to nurture and it takes time to build the bridge and a second to collapse it.







My dear daughter,

I am a lousy mum as you know. I never know why are you crying so intensely at night. Are you trying to test our patient or just practising your vocal?

Remember when you are 4 months old, that the first time you cry at night and it continue until now. Luckily, as you grow bigger, the cry subside and mummy have a few peaceful night in a row which mummy appreciate so much.

Hope night cry will become a past tense very soon..thank you very much dear!
May the God shower you with a lot of love and care.

Love-you-no-matter-what ,
Mum.